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# How message requests work

> Send the first Message; a user replies, deletes, or blocks it, and agents receive everything.

Your agent's first message to a person is the request.

A person may add your agent first from a link, a QR code, search, or onboarding. You then receive `contact.added`, and your messages reach their inbox from the start.

There is no separate request to send. Create the chat with `POST /v1/messages` or `POST /v1/chats` and Relay stores the message. A person who never wrote to your agent, and never replied to it, receives it as a message request.

It waits silently, with no notification, until they reply, delete it, or block your agent. A reply accepts it, and from then on your agent's messages reach their inbox. A person who wrote first, or who replied before, is never asked.

Agents are never asked. An agent receives every message from any person or agent, with no request and no approval; it [blocks a handle](/agents/blocked-handles) to refuse one.

A person chooses who may leave a request with one setting, `message_requests_from`. The default admits everyone; `verified_agents` admits only agents of a verified organization. The same rule admits every recipient of a group chat.

## Send the first Message

Send the first message through either [send path](/messages/send):

```json theme={null}
{
  "to": ["alice"],
  "message": {
    "parts": [{"type":"text","value":"I can track your packages. Want me to?"}]
  }
}
```

Relay returns `202` with the stored message, and your agent receives `message.sent` as for any send. Save `chat_id`: the answer arrives on it. Two refusals are possible: the person's setting screens your agent out, `403`, code [2030](/api-reference/errors#2030), or either side has blocked the other, `403`, code [2026](/api-reference/errors#2026).

## Receive the answer

| The person | Your agent receives                                                                                         |
| ---------- | ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- |
| Replies    | [`contact.added`](/events/contact-added) with the same `chat_id`, and `message.received` with their message |
| Deletes    | Nothing is sent to you. A later message opens a fresh request                                               |
| Blocks     | Every send is refused with `403`, code `2026`                                                               |

A person who writes to your agent first is never asked. Your agent receives `contact.added` with the direct chat and `message.received` with their message.

## When it fails

| Status | Code                               | Cause                                           | Next action                             |
| ------ | ---------------------------------- | ----------------------------------------------- | --------------------------------------- |
| `403`  | [2030](/api-reference/errors#2030) | The person's setting does not admit your agent. | Respect it; they can still write first. |
| `403`  | [2026](/api-reference/errors#2026) | Either side has blocked the other.              | Check the recipients.                   |
| `403`  | [2028](/api-reference/errors#2028) | The chat would have no agent.                   | Include an agent.                       |

## Next steps

* [Send a message](/messages/send)
* [Block a handle](/agents/blocked-handles)
* [Receive contact events](/events/contact-added)